When parents quarrel, or rather, when one parent starts scolding the other...
The party which is the most innocent but bears the greatest trauma is the kid.
I suppose when children are small,
they are the most affected, since they cannot understand what is happening except parents hurling abuse at each other.
When they grow up,
perhaps they bring along this image with them.
Some grow up and starts to do the same,
some lose faith in relationships,
some simply withdraw,
some stood up and starts to rebuke their parents.
I wonder how many of such stories happen in homes nowadays.
And i wonder how many couples who no longer feel for each other are simply stuck under one roof simply because of the kid.
Well...
interpersonal relationships is a bizzare thing.
So is EQ.
Currently,
my school is my training ground for EQ.
It's tough, and i feel like i'm constantly wearing a mask.
But you really see through pp.
There are many very nice and wonderful people around,
and some you wish they'll simply vanish before you and you'll be grinning secretly(EQ,EQ)
Sometimes,
handling people takes a huge effort.
and when i say i'm training for my EQ, i would rather say..
i'm just a hypocrite.
Or in a nicer way, learning how to deal with and handle other people, as well as my own emotions.
But it all goes back to the same thing.
Just as i am a hypocrite to those i don't like..
at least i make it a point to really help and be truthful to those who deserves it, and i make sure they get it too..
and i do it ungrudgingly, feeling so darn happy after that.
Don't second guess what i'm trying to say sometimes.
I don't like that, and i see no need to. I mean, i myself even forget about what i say sometimes, oh well...
Cons about mugging.
But thanks for reading anyway.
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